Tuesday, May 12, 2026
Ben was a rare human, who always checked on others and used his gentle nature, especially with children. My daughter Lauren remembers Ben sitting with her when he’d notice she was anxious or upset, talking calmly until she felt safe.
I remember when he was born n Ken n Liz had to get rid of the giant pet snake. As soon as he could speak, he asked about snakes and insects, playing in the grass catching bugs.
Ben’s dedication to animals was always apparent and he shared a special connection with the earth.
Ben truly was the protector and nurturer to his mother and sisters. He took this role on naturally. He was easy to love and loved by many.
That smile and smirk are unforgettable.
There’s no sense to be made of this loss. It stirs up Liz’s loss. So Lean on us now Cappel’s. You’re always supporting others, let us wrap you up in love and laughter, comfort and joy.
My family and yours ARE family.
May this pain subside - just like his.
We love you all more than you know.
Love,
Aunt Patrice